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Erase Fear

Only when we are no longer afraid do we begin to live.Dorothy Thompson

nothing to fear but fear itself

We must vanquish fear. Especially the kind that freezes us into inaction and causes us to shrivel up. We were meant to expand our horizons and metamorphose into beautiful butterflies. We can’t do that if we’re fearful of growth and change.

apply PSTec

There’s mental work that’s necessary to erase fear and then there are tools available that can help in addition.

The fear pattern creates a neurological path in our brain which becomes very hard to erase. Often no matter what people try the automatic pattern takes over and defeats them.

One way to erase such a pattern is EFT (bottom of the page).

Another amazing way is PSTec, I discovered it lately and have used it successfully for myself and some coaching clients! Check it out here: www.pstec.org.

Here are instructions for using PSTec:

  1. Download these instructions (PSTecinstructions.mp3) and this audio (PSTecFile01.mp3). They’re both from this page: http://pstec.org/instructions.php.
  2. Listen carefully to the instructions first.
  3. Then figure out what emotional issue (fear, sorrow, depression, limiting belief etc.) you want to try PSTec on first. Decide the intensity level on a scale from 0 – 10.
  4. Listen to the 2nd audio now.
  5. For tapping on the right side, use your right thumb and right middle-finger, tap them against each other.
  6. For the left side, tap with your left thumb and left middle-finger.
  7. When asked to tap both sides, tap both the right and left side, at the same time, and rapidly.
  8. That’s it. At the end figure out the intensity level of that same issue again on a scale from 0 – 10.
  9. Repeat steps 3 thru 8 for the same issue until the intensity level goes down to a 0.

 

Daily Affirmation: I AM love. Fear loses its hold as I love.

Recommendation: The Essential Laws of Fearless Living by Guy Finley

The Essential Laws of Fearless Living: Find the Power to Never Feel Powerless AgainKindle DX Wireless Reading Device (9.7" Display, U.S. Wireless)

The Holodeck Perspective…

What would you attempt to do if you knew you could not fail?Robert Schuller

what?

  • Quit your job? And start living the life of your dreams?
  • Confess love to those you’ve always loved?
  • Never have fear about anything again?
  • Be happy?
  • Travel?

you never do fail

From one standpoint you never do fail, even when you think you do. I call this the Holodeck Perspective. In Star Trek the Holodeck was a large room where the computer created a virtual reality based on your request. The simulation was so real that you could actually forget that you were living that simulation. Life is like that. In an ultimate way, we’re always safe, we feel the pain and the gain right now, but nothing we do on this planet can eternally harm us…

Once we remind ourselves that this is a Holodeck experience (even though our relationships and experiences are real); we need not be afraid of failure; we need not be afraid of anything or anyone!

Daily Affirmation: I am eternally safe today to pursue my dreams. I will handle all that life throws at me.

Recommendation: The Essential Laws of Fearless Living by Guy Finley

The Essential Laws of Fearless Living: Find the Power to Never Feel Powerless AgainKindle Wireless Reading Device (6" Display, Global Wireless, Latest Generation)

Release The Brakes!

Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one foot on the brakes. In order to be free, we must learn how to let go. Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old pain. Mary Manin Morrissey

what brakes do you have on?

What extra baggage are you carrying around? Examine the flow of negative thoughts that you might experience daily. Those are your clues to the burdens that weigh you down. Journal these negative thoughts and uncover the pearls of wisdom that you will thus uncover.

let go and cruise

As you become more aware of that which holds you back, join the free flowing stream of the river of life. Enjoy the exhilarating freedom of living a fearless, forgiving and soaring life!

Daily Affirmation: Today I am free, I consciously leave my hurts and fear behind, I surge ahead!

Recommendation: What Got You Here Won’t Get You There

What Got You Here Won't Get You There: How Successful People Become Even More SuccessfulKindle Wireless Reading Device (6" Display, Global Wireless, Latest Generation)

Certainty About God

Increasing happiness is always the experience of all who are certain about God.The Urantia Papers

ultimate safety

When you’re certain about God, then you’re certain about your ultimate safety in a creation that’s vouchsafed by a benevolent creator. From a long term perspective, you have nothing to be worried or concerned about.

time to focus on what’s real

When your worries diminish and you understand the futility of the rat race, then you’re free to:

  • Spend time on what will truly fulfill you, your Life Purpose
  • And things that count for the longer run, like people and relationships

Daily Affirmation: I am a child of God. God keeps me safe today and forever.

Recommendation: God Is Closer Than You Think

God Is Closer Than You Think: This Can Be the Greatest Moment of Your Life Because This Moment Is the Place Where You Can Meet GodKindle Wireless Reading Device (6" Display, Global Wireless, Latest Generation)

Leap And Grow…

All growth is a leap in the dark, a spontaneous unpremeditated act without benefit of experience.Henry Miller

real growth

Is only possible when we leap off the cliff in this fashion. We do grow incrementally as well, however the growth achieved by just jumping off is more exhilarating and gratifying. I relate to this quote; I just joined a new job and feel that I won’t get anywhere without jumping right in, without fear.

banish fear

Fear is the enemy to banish first. Next listen in on the small talk inside your head. What messages are you constantly programming into yourself? Watch the negative ones, replace them with something more fitting your amazing personality.

Daily Affirmation: I am capable. I fear not, I grow by leaping, knowing that I am safe.

Recommendation: The Essential Laws of Fearless Living

The Essential Laws of Fearless Living: Find the Power to Never Feel Powerless AgainKindle Wireless Reading Device (6" Display, Global Wireless, Latest Generation)

Celebrate Life!

Just show up, be present, open every door and let events unfold. Life is your stage. This is your parade.The Universe

you’re already successful

Count the ways in which you’ve already arrived. Look within and without. Notice your mind, body, family, friends and comforts. Are you celebrating?

your next step forward

Ok there’s always the next step to take no matter where you are. For that, simply show up and notice the opportunities that abound. The Universe will provide clues, just be available to listen and act!

Daily Affirmation: Today I’m deeply thankful for all that I am and have. I will watch for signs and act without hesitating!

Recommendation: Notes from the Universe

Notes from the Universe: New Perspectives from an Old FriendKindle Wireless Reading Device (6" Display, Global Wireless, Latest Generation)

Change Happening!

Change is the law of life.John F. Kennedy

understand the law

Notice the change that’s always in motion. The day passes, we grow older, the keys on a keyboard slowly smoothen out, the sensitivity of our senses and our own awareness of things itself is constantly in flux. So why do we want everything to stay the same [don’t want change]? And what about our desires for new things and experiences all the time [want change]?

the ‘you’ that doesn’t change

If everything’s changing, what is it that’s not changing? The constancy comes from our individuality. Even though we ourselves change and grow all the time, there’s a part of us that instills a sameness to us. Under normal circumstances, whether we awaken from sleep or regain consciousness after losing it, there’s always the ‘us’ that’s there. That’s the lens from which we view all our experiences and changes. It’s the same perspective that can help us stay in the ‘now’ moment. The more we’re in the now moment, the better prepared are we for life as it happens to us.

Affirmation: Today I will stay centered as much as possible. As change occurs I will simply notice it.

Recommendation: Getting in the Gap

Getting in the Gap: Making Conscious Contact with God Through Meditation (Book with CD)Kindle Wireless Reading Device (6" Display, Global Wireless, Latest Generation)