How Does It Benefit Us All?

Appeal to one’s nobler motives. Dale Carnegie

our nobler motives…

How can we convince someone or enroll them to support our vision? How can we gain anyone’s cooperation? Love the story below, one cool way we can meet with just about anyone including famous people is to do something similar. We could contact their office and promise to pay a nice sum to their favorite charity for just 5 minutes of their time! Inherently we all want to be enablers of the ‘larger good’, it’s hard to decline an appeal to our nobler motives!

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19th Dale Carnegie Principle: Appeal to the nobler motives.

Here’s a story from the book:

When Cyrus H. K. Curtis, the poor boy from Maine, was starting on his meteoric career, which was destined to make him millions as owner of The Saturday Evening Post and the Ladies’ Home Journal, he couldn’t afford to pay his contributors the prices that other magazines paid. He couldn’t afford to hire first-class authors to write for money alone. So he appealed to their nobler motives. For example, he persuaded even Louisa May Alcott, the immortal author of Little Women, to write for him when she was at the flood tide of her fame; and he did it by offering to send a check for a hundred dollars, not to her, but to her favorite charity.

Daily Affirmation: Today I name names!

Recommendation: How To Win Friends And Influence People by Dale Carnegie

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It’s The Journey!!

You cannot have a happy ending to an unhappy journey.  – Abraham

future?

When we’re unhappy in the current moment we’re really saying that we hope to be more pleased in the future. Does that future state ever arrive? If we’re dissatisfied now, what’ll guarantee a happier state later?

now!

It’s either ‘now’ or never! We can choose to be fulfilled ‘now’. We may realize that ‘now’ is all we have. We can understand that time is still when we fully occupy the present moment. It can all begin afresh ‘now’. We can re-assess everything starting ‘now’. We may re-imagine our lives, our place on this planet, the planet itself and our eternity, ‘now’!! How are we choosing to spend ‘now’?

Namaste ‘now’….

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM joyous!

Recommendation: The Law of Attraction by Esther Hicks

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How To Handle Life!

… You cannot tailor-make your situation in life, but can tailor-make your attitudes to fit those situations.  – Zig Ziglar

victims?

  • Are we overwhelmed by life?
  • What’s our general outlook on life?
  • Do we expect things to get better or worse?
  • How do we show-up daily?

attitude

Mastering life is nothing more than mastering our attitude! Once we do that we equip ourselves to handle practically any situation. With the right attitude what we’re really saying is that ‘we can handle it’, that we have faith that ‘it all works out’ and that we’ll emerge just fine at ‘the end of it all’!

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM ready for life, I welcome it!

Recommendation: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey

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Dream Or Bust!

You block your dream when you allow your fear to grow bigger than your faith.  – Mary Morrissey

fear

False Evidence Appearing Real. What will it take to unseat fear from our lives? How can we live carefree lives? How can we dream like children?

love, faith & dreams

We may do so by living in love, coming from faith and reaching for our dreams. How can we live in love? What’ll make us firm in our faith? How can we dream unabashedly once again? These are questions we must answer to truly enjoy this amazing experience we call Life!!

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM love, I believe and I dream!!

Recommendation: The Essential Laws of Fearless Living by Guy Finley

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What It Takes To Relax…

Tension is who you think you should be. Relaxation is who you are.  – Chinese Proverb

what ought to be

Tension is what we think we should be. Stress is made up of regrets of the past and anticipation of the future. Turmoil is when we appear to lose control over our lives. Despair is when nothing seems to go right. We’re unhappy and fearful because we think it’s all up to us.

what is

We can be relaxed when we’re good with what we are. We’re peaceful when we trust that all is well. We’re joyous when we realize that we’re God’s own children! Let’s live up to the faith we’re capable of, let’s relax in the bosom of this friendly and loving Universe in which we reside. All is well, all will continue to stay well!

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM relaxed because I AM.

RecommendationAn Introduction to Zen Buddhism by D.T. Suzuki

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The Key To Another’s Heart…

Next to love, sympathy is the divinest passion of the human heart. Edmund Burke

sympathy

We all need love and understanding. When we don’t get it we feel hurt. When we do receive sympathy we feel better almost immediately. To genuinely make the other person feel better is the key to winning them over. When our life is more about others than self, we are happy and so are they!

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18th Dale Carnegie Principle: Be sympathetic with the other person’s ideas and desires.

Here’s a story from the book:

Jay Mangum represented an elevator-escalator maintenance company in Tulsa, Oklahoma, which had the maintenance contract for the escalators in one of Tulsa’s leading hotels. The hotel manager did not want to shut down the escalator for more than two hours at a time because he did not want to inconvenience the hotel’s guests. The repair that had to be made would take at least eight hours, and his company did not always have a specially qualified mechanic available at the convenience of the hotel.
When Mr. Mangum was able to schedule a top-flight mechanic for this job, he telephoned the hotel manager and instead of arguing with him to give him the necessary time, he said:
"Rick, I know your hotel is quite busy and you would like to keep the escalator shutdown time to a minimum. I understand your concern

about this, and we want to do everything possible to accommodate you. However, our diagnosis of the situation shows that if we do not do a complete job now, your escalator may suffer more serious damage and that would cause a much longer shutdown. I know you would not want to inconvenience your guests for several days."
The manager had to agree that an eight-hour shut down was more desirable than several days’. By sympathizing with the manager’s desire to keep his patrons happy, Mr. Mangum was able to win the hotel manager to his way of thinking easily and without rancor.

Daily Affirmation: Today I understand the hurt others feel…

Recommendation: How To Win Friends And Influence People by Dale Carnegie

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