There is a magnet in your heart that will attract true friends. That magnet is unselfishness, thinking of others first… – Yogananda

form a habit

Most of us think of us first. What if we formed a habit of thinking about others first? It needs to be a new habit; we’ll need new neural pathways that allow us to think in this fashion!

and expect not

Leave the rest to providence. Do for others because you want to, don’t expect the same from them. You’ll suffer otherwise.

Recommendation: Autobiography of a Yogi