Tag Archives: relationships

Why We’re Misunderstood…

Never underestimate people’s ability to misinterpret you.  – Magnus Berggren

our skin

Johan Magnusson, one heck of a dynamic personality, was leading a fun class a couple days ago, where he displayed the above quote from his mentor!

We all wear unique life-lenses. Which is why no one can fully understand anyone else. Also why misunderstandings between people are commonplace.

underestimate

We underestimate how much people misunderstand us and each other. By coming to grips with this very human failing we may take communication to a deeper level. That’s a skill we all need, especially if we want to be the change we want to see in the world!

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM deepening my communication!

Recommendation: The Power of Small by Linda Kaplan Thaler

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How I Can Change You!

I haven’t the slightest idea how to change people, but I still keep a long list of prospective candidates just in case I should ever figure it out.  – David Sedaris

you change

We want to change others! Whenever we make an overt or covert attempt to do that, we ensure that the recipient of our advice clams up on us. If we want to be sure that our advice isn’t heard, we should give more of it!

i change

While it’s a cliché it’s forever true that we can only change self. When we’re successful at changing self we might then inspire others to change. It’s always all about us, it’s never about others.

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM going to change!

Recommendation: Living the Science of Mind by Ernest Holmes

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How To Discover The Treasure!

You cannot be lonely if you like the person you’re alone with.  – Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

lonely?

We all feel lonely at times. Often it’s because we can’t stand to be with self. We want to stay distracted by watching TV or playing on our phones.

treasure

Inside us is a veritable treasure. A treasure that will never get discovered if we keep running away from self. We must be still and like self enough to be with it. Then the doors to the vault start opening!

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM loving self!

Recommendation: Unstoppable Me! by Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

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How To End Conflict

Conflict cannot survive without your participation.  – Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

conflict

Seldom is our mind at peace. We have conflicting thoughts, worry about our future or think about what’s not working in our relationships. How can we be at peace?

the tao

The Tao provides an answer. We can refuse to go along with our unsettling thoughts. We can decide not to participate. We can let go and be. We must be the masters of our own thoughts. There is no other way.

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM letting go!

Recommendation: The Power of Intention by Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

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How To Make The Heart Light

Always be first to forgive; and forgive yourself first always.  – Dan Zadra

self-hate

What do we not like about our own selves? How does this dislike for self translate to resentment towards others?

forgive

We don’t have to carry any burdens. Whatever happened is ok. Let’s forgive self and then completely forgive others. It’s time to move forward with a light heart! A huge burden lifts as soon as we forgive, we’re now ready to soar!!

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM light having forgiven!

Recommendation: The Secret of Letting Go by Guy Finley

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Why Love?

From success you get lots of things, but not that great inside thing that love brings you.  – Sam Goldwyn

inside job

True success is an inside job. Real happiness can only come from this internal work that we do. It’s up to us.

love

Love really is the end. And it’s also the means. When we tie the means and the end together we get an unbroken stream of never-ending love. And that’s a super successful life!

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM love from inside and out.

Recommendation: Love: What Life Is All About by Leo F. Buscaglia

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Be Happy…

Tell everyone you know: "My happiness depends on me, so you’re off the hook." And then demonstrate it. Be happy, no matter what they’re doing. Practice feeling good, no matter what. And before you know it, you will not give anyone else responsibility for the way you feel — and then, you’ll love them all. Because the only reason you don’t love them, is because you’re using them as your excuse to not feel good.Abraham

me

My happiness depends on me. Your happiness depends on you. We cannot use others as our excuse to not feel good. Let’s live this truth.

be happy

Be happy now. That’s our goal. Love everyone just the way they are.

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM happy and loving!

Recommendation: The Law of Attraction by Esther Hicks

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