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Why We Matter More Than We Know…

Every cell, every human being, is of equal importance and has work to do in this world.Peace Pilgrim

self-esteem

If all self-esteem issues would disappear we would have world peace! Self-esteem is the main cause for all conflict. We want to control others so that they do what we want them to do so that we feel better and important. The world is all about us, where we came from, what we perceive and what we would like to see happen…

we matter

We matter more than we can realize. We matter to God, which is why he made us universally unique. God loves us. We matter to the Universe because without variety life would be boring. We are not boring. And we matter to Life because it would be incomplete without us. We complete everything. Once we realize this we have our work cut out for us…

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM worthy enough to help others…

Recommendation: Peace Pilgrim by Peace Pilgrim

Peace Pilgrim: Her Life and Work in Her Own WordsKindle Paperwhite, 6

Why We Must Face Shame!

If we’re going to find our way back to each other vulnerability is going to be that path. Brene Brown

vulnerability

On Tuesday I shared some thoughts on Brene Brown and her talk on vulnerability. Here’s her next TED video which delves deeper into vulnerability by tackling ‘shame’ head-on! Real good stuff. Forces us to become more real, with self and others, check it out!

shame

According to Brene Brown guilt is ‘I did something bad. I made a mistake.’ While shame is ‘I am bad. I am a mistake.’ Women most often feel shame when they cannot do it all or can’t do it perfectly. Men feel shame when they think ‘I am weak’. It’s important to recognize shame when we experience it so that we don’t brush it aside. It pays to shine a light into a dark corner inside us. Because then we can be more human, more vulnerable and therefore more lovable and loving…

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM facing my shame!

Recommendation: Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulne… by Brene Brown

Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and LeadKindle Paperwhite, 6

What is the ‘Law of Averages’?

Happiness doesn’t depend on any external conditions, it is governed by our mental attitude. Dale Carnegie

worry makes bad curry!

Worrying is a waste of energy. It serves no good purpose. How can we stop investing in this losing proposition?

life principles

3rd Basic Technique to ‘Break the Worry Habit Before it Breaks You’ : Use the law of averages to outlaw your worries.

Objectively figure out the chances that something will go wrong. As an example the odds of our dying in a 1 hour flight are less than 1 in 1,000,000! Similarly the odds of something else going wrong are not super high. Let’s not dwell on what may go wrong. That’s energy misspent! Let’s deploy the ‘Law of Averages’!

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM vibrating good thoughts!

Recommendation: How to Stop Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie

How to Stop Worrying and Start LivingKindle Paperwhite, 6

Why We Must Assert Control!

Set your mind at work to solve its problems; teach your intellect to work for you; refuse longer to be dominated by fear like an unthinking animal.  – Urantia Papers

stop and look

We get lost in the daily conduct of life. And we get used to a sub-standard way of living. Sub-standard because we’re not always enjoying healthy relationships and may not be as happy as we can be. We’re worried about our future and fear Life itself. Let’s stop and observe this situation.

assert control!

Our mind is the reason we’re happy or not. We are the intelligence behind our intellect. It’s time we asserted control over our own minds! Let’s choose our own thoughts and not allow those that don’t serve us. Let’s be the divine children we are and flourish daily!

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM asserting control over self!

Recommendation: The Urantia Papers

The Urantia Book: Indexed Version with free Audio Book on DVD (Can only be played on a computer with a DVD drive.)Kindle Paperwhite, 6

Why We Must Be Present To Life…

Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.John Lennon

life happens

Life is happening to us right now. We’re all getting older; some relationships are blossoming while others are withering; everything around us is changing. Where are we during all all this?

where are we?

We are generally absent. We’re lost in our thoughts. We’re focused on self. The roses die before we smell them. People move on before we can say goodbye. When will we be present to the eternal now?

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM relishing every minute of life!

Recommendation: Arriving at Your Own Door by Jon Kabat-Zinn

Arriving at Your Own Door: 108 Lessons in MindfulnessKindle Paperwhite, 6

Why We Must Awaken!

Life has no remote. Get up and change it yourself. – Seen on Facebook!

savior?

We await the savior. Or we await an external agent to come and rescue us. We don’t need rescuing! Is there something we don’t like about our life or about us?

awaken!

Let’s face what it is that’s not working. And then resolve to act on it. Acting on ‘it’ really means acting on us. We need to change us and our perspective on things. That’s it, the rest follows…

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM ‘the man’!

Recommendation: Dancing with Life by Phillip Moffitt

Dancing with Life: Buddhist Insights for Finding Meaning and Joy in the Face of SufferingKindle Paperwhite, 6

Why We Must Be Strong & Happy!

You only ever uplift from your position of strength, clarity and alignment.  – Abraham

misery seeks company

We must understand others but we don’t need to be in another’s shoes literally if we’re going to ‘help’ others. We must have something to ‘give’.

strong & clear

When we’re strong we give others permission to be strong. When we’re healthy and happy, we allow others to reach the same state. Which is why the spiritual journey must begin with us. How are we going to be happy today?

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM my own focus.

Recommendation: The Law of Attraction by Esther Hicks

The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of AbrahamKindle Paperwhite, 6