Why Be Like A Bamboo?

The bamboo which bends is stronger than the oak which persists.  – Japanese Proverbs

bamboos

Bamboos proliferate. That’s because they’re bendable and adapt to changing conditions. They’re strong enough but not overly so. They’re beautiful and are used for a myriad purposes.

bendable

How bendable are we? Do we stick to our guns? Do we truly try to understand the others’ perspective? Do we allow even our own deeper perspectives to surface? How can we start bending more?

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM bendable!

Recommendation: Peace Pilgrim by Peace Pilgrim

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What Water Teaches Us…

Be water, my friend…  – Bruce Lee

water is

Without form, transparent, fluid, flexible and pliable. It settles to the lowest position possible . It seeks nothing, it only gives. It purifies and cools. Water just flows, as the river. Reflects as the lake. It refreshes and quenches as falling rain. Water gives life, to others…

a teacher

Water like many other beauties of nature is our teacher. Will we heed its calling? Will we flow with Life while being a boon to others? Will we transform as necessary? As we reflect on ‘water’, what comes to your mind?

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM like water!

Recommendation: Tao Te Ching by Lao-Tse

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Why We All Need Encouragement…


encourage!

God knows that we all need to change; he also knows, as do we, that we can use a lot of encouragement! Today let’s remember to encourage others as well as self in our eternal quest to be better and more loving individuals!

life principles

29th Dale Carnegie Principle: Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.

Here’s a story from the book:

Lowell Thomas, a superb artist in human relations, used this technique, He gave you confidence, inspired you with courage and faith. For example, I spent a weekend with Mr. and Mrs. Thomas; and on Saturday night, I was asked to sit in on a friendly bridge game before a roaring fire. Bridge? Oh, no! No! No! Not me. I knew nothing about it. The game had always been a black mystery to me, No! No! Impossible!
“Why, Dale, it is no trick at all,” Lowell replied. “There is nothing to bridge except memory and judgment. You’ve written articles on memory. Bridge will be a cinch for you. It’s right up your alley.”
And presto, almost before I realized what I was doing, I found myself for the first time at a bridge table. All because I was told I had a natural flair for it and the game was made to seem easy.

Daily Affirmation: Today I focus on encouraging others!

Recommendation: How To Win Friends And Influence People by Dale Carnegie

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Love People, Use Things!

What most people need to learn in life is how to love people and use things instead of using people and loving things.  – Anon (Radhanath) 

love things?

Do we love things more than people? We all do some of that and probably more than we should. People and relationships ought to be our most important focus in life. Relationships are the only ‘real’ thing that we’ll take with us beyond this physical life…

love people…

We can never be poor if we focus our lives on loving others. Imagine that! Love family, friends, folks at work and everywhere else! Won’t that guarantee a successful life? With loving relationships comes happiness in every aspect of life. What could possibly be lacking?

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM a lover of people!

Recommendation: The Journey Home by Radhanath Swami

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Why We Shouldn’t Be Impressive!

He does not need to be impressive or desirable; he can relax and be himself.Vernon Howard

impressive, not!

We try to impress others. We want others to like us. We want them to love us. So we do all sorts of things to make this desire a reality. We behave a certain way, we try to sound wise and knowledgeable, we buy people things and carry ourselves a certain way. Isn’t that the truth?

be self, relax

Let’s relax instead. Relax into who we truly are. Let others see us as we are. How freeing will that be? How much time and effort will that save us? Won’t that unleash personal creativity? Won’t that eventually enhance our relationships?

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM impressive just the way I AM!

Recommendation: The Mystic Path to Cosmic Power by Vernon Howard

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How To Improve Character…

 

inherited urges

We are animals who are becoming children of God. We battle animalistic urges daily. Whether it has to do with an appetite, anger or jealousy, we must assert control!

moral character

The way we react to life and events is akin to using the chisel on a sculpture. That sculpture, a masterpiece, is us. That’s how we artistically design our lives. Are we willing to take on that responsibility?

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM a designer of my moral nature!

Recommendation: The Urantia Papers

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Learn To Love…

Learn to love what you have before it becomes what you had.  – nephew on Facebook!

love what we have…

Teenagers are very wise. A nephew posted the above quote on Facebook lately! How can we truly appreciate and love what we have before it goes away? And go away it must…

learn to love…

Ruminating on this beautiful quote prompted me to examine the essential question… How can we learn to love?

It’s really not possible without allowing the spirit within more leeway into our waking life. And that’s done in two essential ways, via…

  1. Selfless service
  2. Stillness practice

Daily Affirmation: Today I AM learning how to love!

Recommendation: The Urantia Papers

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Be, Here, Now…